Ben Flajnik's accommodation to adduce to Courtney Robertson on The Bachelor afterpiece was not absolutely able-bodied received, but he stands by it, adage they're a abundant fit.

The absoluteness brilliant hopes that as the contempo altercation dies down, "people will get a more good compassionate of who we are and why we're still together."

Ben admits he saw signs of Courtney Robertson's now-infamously backbiting behavior this season, "like aback she would skip aback afterwards accepting a rose."

Just the same, "I asked [the added women] for specific examples and [they said], 'She's weird,' or 'She's different.' That wasn't acumen enough."

Ben Flajnik says there were "many absolutely candied moments that we had together" that kept him absorbed in Courtney Robertson, appear what may.

Plus, he adds, "She was one of the alone girls on the appearance that questioned the acquaintance and that's what I begin adorable about her – and I still do."

"Courtney was consistently like, 'I've alone been on two dates with you, why should I accompany you home appropriate now? My ancestors is absolutely important to me.'"

"It was like, finally, addition who asks the appropriate questions instead of [saying], 'It's activity be admirable and we could be affiliated for the blow of our lives.' "

Despite acknowledging that the two breach for several weeks this winter, during which he kissed a agglomeration of accidental girls, Ben says they "will be fine."

"Maybe anytime bodies will get abaft us, but for now we assignment absolutely able-bodied together," he says. "The Bachelor will not ascertain me as a person."